M A R U I S M

O sha! I suppose na nasa tamang age na ang  lilimang readers (pa-hambol, echoos!) ng blog kong ‘to. Ibig kong sabihin, siguro naman ay nasa edad na kayo kung saan ay nakakaintindi na kayo sa mga ka-shitan o kaibahan ng LOVE versus LUST kaya hindi na kelangan ang marami ko pang blah-blah tungkol sa title ng post na ‘to! Kumbaga, alam na alam nyo na ang pakiramdam ng nalilibugan lang sa totoong pagmamahal.

Neweys, ayoko na mag anu-ano pa, wala lang, gusto ko lang i-post dito ‘tong nabasa ko kanina lang. Dikwat ko lang ‘to sa isang forum.

Here are some facts to differentiate love from lust:

LUST
* You are totally focused on his looks and body.
* You don’t bother to return his calls and you can easily go for days without talking to him.
* You only want to be with him to have sex.
* You leave after sex [find easy ways].

LOVE
* You have a great chemistry.
* You want to spend time with him.
* You see a future together.
* You introduce him to your family.
* You include him in your plans.
* He makes you want to be a better woman.

Three important points that distinguish love from lust:

1. The way it makes us feel
2. The dynamics of our interaction
3. The focus of our attention

LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room.
LUST – When your tongues meet across a crowded room.

LOVE – When intercourse is called making love.
LUST – When intercourse is called screwing.

LOVE -When you share everything you own.
LUST – When you steal everything they own.

LOVE - When it doesn’t matter if you don’t climax.
LUST -When the relationship is over if you don’t climax.

LOVE – When your heart flutters every time you see them.
LUST - When your groin twitches every time you see them.

LOVE – When all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel.
LUST - When all the songs on the radio determine how you do it.

LOVE -When breaking up is something you try not to think about.
LUST -When staying together is something you try not to think about.

LOVE – When you’re only interested in doing things with your partner.
LUST -When you’re only interested in doing things TO your partner.

LOVE -When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and talk.
LUST -When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and have sex.

LOVE – You only leave the house for coffee and doughnuts.
LUST – You only leave the house for condoms and Vaseline.

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Thought For Today:

“”I would rather receive compliments based on my personality than the way that I look.”

While writing this, I was listening to “Waiting In Vain” by MYMP.