Ang Mga Babae

woman

Ang Mga Babae (Sabi Ng Mga Lalaki)…

“Ang mga babae, madaldal, mabunganga.” -  Oo, wala talagang tigil ang bibig nila sa pag-rachada sa kakasalita. Lalo na sa tuwing pinapaalala nila sa ‘yo na oras na para inumin ang iyong gamot, kapag nagtatanong sila kung kumain ka na ba, kapag ginising ka nila sa umaga upang hindi ma-late at sa mga pagkakataon na nag-aalala sila sa ‘yo at tinatanung kung nasaan ka na at bakit hindi ka pa umuuwi. Walang duda, madaldal nga. Hayaan mo na, balang araw, siguro magbabago din sila. Tipong maririnig mo lang eh “Oo”, “Hindi” at “Pwede”. Yung para kayong naglalaro ng Pinoy Henyo. Romantic siguro ng buhay nyo nun.

“Ang mga babae, masyadong sentimental.” - Sinabi mo pa. Tandang-tanda nga nila ang petsa at lugar kung saan kayo unang nag-date. Isinulat niya din sa kanyang diary kung ano ang mga ginawa ninyo. Nakatago at ingat na ingat siya sa mga larawan nyong dalawa. Daig pa niya ang Smithsonian sa pag-aalaga ng mga iniregalo mo. At kahit kailan hindi niya nalilimutan ang mga importanteng okasyon tulad ng anniversary, monthsary, weeksary o birthday mo. Nakakainis ba? Ok lang yan, malay mo next time, hindi na siya ganun. Tipong i-aasa na lang niya sa Facebook ang iyong kaarawan. Tapos tamang post na lang sa wall mo ng “hapi bday”.

“Ang mga babae, emosyonal.” They cry about movies. They get teary with a romantic novel. They blush and gasp upon seeing a picture of a cute dog or a cuddly baby. Bakit ba ganun sila? Buti na lang tayo hindi. Kinikimkim lang natin lahat ng emosyon sa loob hanggang sa sumabog at atakihin sa puso o di naman kaya eh magpapakalasing tapos magwawala at maghahamon ng wrestling. Di ba mas logical yun? Madalas pa mag-imagine na ikakasal kayo sa simbahan. Lagi nag a-iloveyou, imissyou, take care at mwah mwah sa text. Asar ka na ba at naco-cornyhan? Ayos lang yan. Darating din siguro ang time na titigil siya at ise-send ang mga yun sa iba.

Women are probably the greatest gift to men from God, beside beer and sizzling sisig. At para sa akin, women deserve all advantages, lalo na sa pag-ibig. Sana lahat ng babae ay maging masaya ang lovelife. Sana, walang babaeng heart-broken. Kasi, tayong mga lalake, we’re meant to pursue them and it’s okay if we fail from time to time. It’s the way nature intended it. Gaya ng isang leon sa usa o pag-ikot ng earth sa paligid ng araw. Mas okay kung tayo na lang yung masasaktan. Eh sila? Isipin mo, nagkakaroon sila ng “dalaw” at nababaliw kada buwan, nabubuntis at nahihirapan ng 9 months, at pinaka matindi sa lahat, kailangan pa nilang panatilihing makinis at walang buhok ang kanilang mga kili-kili. Ano ba namang pasayahin sila at gawing “scar-free” ang kanilang buhay pag-ibig. And if you are with a great gal today, do everything to make her happy. Don’t ever break her heart.

Wag kang magpa-uto sa mga statistics na nagsasabing mas marami ang babae sa lalake, kaya okay lang mang-chicks. Ano pa bang gusto mo? Hindi pa ba sapat na minahal ka niya sa kabila ng iyong pagiging engot at kawalan ng Romantic DNA sa katawan? Malaki man ang papyulasyon nila sa mundo, napaka-liit ng tsansang makakilala ka ulit ng katulad niya na magtiya-tiyaga sa ‘yo. Tandaan, pansamantala ka man maakit ng naglalakihang pulang high-heels o maaarteng makintab na sandals, mas masarap pa rin umuwi/bumalik sa nag-iisang tsinelas ng buhay mo.

Source: Nenok sa isang forum site

oOo

“Huwag mong sasaktan ang taong alam mong mahal ka. Dahil hindi mo alam na wala syang ibang iniisip kundi ang mapasaya ka.”

Just Believe

falling in love

“‘Cause I’m going to give it to you straight. Your ex isn’t coming back. And even if he or she does, I’m going to make damn well sure that you’re going to keep moving forward, you’re not going to look back, and you’re not going to take him back, because I swear, if he managed to walk out of your life once, he’s going to do it again. And I don’t want you to go back to square one, my friend. And no, I’m not going to tell you that everything’s going to be okay because it’s not. It’s going to be tough. Getting over someone is quite possibly one of the most painful things you will ever experience in your life aside from losing the ones that you love permanently to death. It’s going to hurt like hell and no, it’s not going be over quick. You’re going to cry yourself to sleep, and you’re going to feel pathetic day in and day out and you’re going to feel inadequate for a very very very long time and you’re going to have trust issues as well. But I can guarantee you, despite every possible bad decision you’re about to make because of desperation, I’m going to be there every single step of the way.”

- Thecountessanna on Youtube

oOo

“Kung nakalimutan ka nya na parang may amnesia, tiisin mo din sya na para kang nag-anesthesia.”

I’m Not That Woman

An Ode For Every Woman Who Has Loved, Lost and Forgotten Her Value

I’m not that woman that makes it easy for you.  Even if i have been before, I’m not now.

  • I don’t care if one thousand women have gone before me and they’ve all had sex with you on the first night or whenever you chanced your arm for it. I’m not those women.
  • I have sex when I feel comfortable and if that time happens to be when I feel more confident about where I stand with you and the values, qualities, characteristics that you possess, you’ll have to deal with it, or go back and have sex with one of the women that make it easier for you.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to corresponding by texts and emails and every other woman has put up with it. I’m not those women.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to disappearing and then coming back with little or no hassle. If you disappear on me, you’d better stay disappeared!
  • I don’t care if your ex didn’t mind if you wouldn’t hold her hand in public and didn’t mind that you’re not affectionate, I do mind.
  • I don’t care if all the other women let you date and shag them all at the same time. I’m not those women!
  • I don’t care if you’re used to getting a shag, an ego stroke, and a shoulder to lean on with minimal contribution into a relationship. I deserve more than crumbs.
  • I don’t care if  “other women” are more compliant and don’t expect you to be a decent guy in a decent relationship. I’m not those women.
  • I don’t care if every woman has been sympathetic to your commitment fears and let you coast through those relationships claiming that you’re scared and you need time. I’m not those women.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to getting your own way and having things on your own terms. I’m a person of value who is an equal party to this relationship.
  • I don’t care if every other woman let you go bareback because it feels good, strap up or piss off!
  • I don’t care if you’re used to dodging responsibility and accountability and blaming whoever you’re involved with for your thoughtless actions. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if all the women you’ve been with have waited around for you to make up your mind while you reject them time and again. I’m not those women.
  • I don’t care if your ex let you do X,Y, Z. I’m not her. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if other women have let you have sex with them when you have demonstrated or even said you’re not interested in them/don’t want a relationship. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if other women when you’ve told them you don’t want a relationship with them have gone into overdrive trying to prove themselves to you so that you make them the exception. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to being with a woman who thinks you’re the centre of the universe and the only source of her happiness .I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to being with a woman with low self-esteem that let’s you control the relationship and define her . I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to pressing The Reset Button and acting like nothing has happened and getting away with it. I’m not that woman. I will remember.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to controlling someone’s every move .I’m not that woman. Don’t even try it.
  • I don’t care if other women have believed you when you said you wouldn’t lay a hand on them again, I’m not that woman. I’m not taking my chances.
  • I don’t care if every other woman felt sympathetic to your One Time in Band camp tales of woe and excused all your dodgy behavior , I am most definitely not that woman.
  • I don’t care if every other woman has put you on the deeds of her house or given you access to her bank account. I am not that woman. Are you crazy?
  • I don’t care if you’re used to having virtual sex and sending nude pics to women you met a hot minute ago on a dating site. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if other women don’t mind if you’re married/attached , I do. You should.
  • I don’t care if other women let you call them up late at night and let you come round for sex. I’m not those women.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to women competing for you, fighting in the street and getting into all sorts of craziness. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if other women have been prepared to “go with the flow” when there is no flow or you’ve been flowing backwards. I’m not those women. I am entitled to be with someone who is not afraid to see a future with me.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to playing a cat and mouse game. I’m not that woman. You’re either in or you’re out.
  • I don’t care if you’re used to having your lame excuses like my cat was stuck up a tree/battery not working/The Busiest Week Ever/I lost your number etc accepted. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if your mother and every other woman you’ve been with has let you do as you please. I’m not that woman.

And…

  • I don’t care if you’re upset because I won’t let you mess around with my head and my emotions now that we’ve broken up. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if you’re upset because I won’t be your friend now that I’ve got tired of you rejecting me for the umpteenth time. I used to be that woman but now I’m not.
  • I don’t care if all your exes let you call them up and use them for a shag, an ego stroke, a shoulder to lean on, money, whatever. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if you’re worried about what everyone will think of you now that a “good woman” has left you. I’m worrying about myself.
  • I don’t care if the last time we broke up I let you call me up, sleep with me etc. I used to be that woman but I’m not anymore.
  • I don’t care if other women let you force your version of the truth on them. I’m not that woman and I make up my mind about my truth.
  • I don’t care if you’ve just separated or divorced and are looking to try on a new relationship for size. I’m not that woman.
  • I don’t care if you just broke up with your ex and are looking for a Fallback Girl to be a buffer and let you treat her like an option so you can avoid the pain of your breakup. I’m not that woman. I’m not your emotional airbag.
  • I don’t care if other women think that guys like you are the best they can do. I’m not that woman. You’re not the man for me.
  • I don’t care if me having boundaries and treating myself with love, care, trust, and respect writes me off from being with you. If being with and loving you means I can’t love me, I’ll choose me. Other women might be prepared to let you bust up their boundaries, but you guessed it “I”m not that woman.

SOURCE via

 

oOo

“Ang puso natin can do wonders, minsan akala mo di mo kaya, pero pag nakaya mo you’ll become stronger.”

 

Find What Makes You Happy

Bagong-bago pa ang TVC na ‘to ng Coca-Cola. Parang kanila lang ‘ata. (Kanina ko lang kasi napanood. Lol!)

Grabe! Kakaantig!

Me super likey!

Love! Love! Love!

 

100-year old man makes a special journey to visit his newborn great granddaughter. His advice: “Find what makes you happy.” Find out more about the secret to happiness.

Coca-Cola: 100-Year-Old Man Shares the Secret to Happiness

“Hanapin mo kung ano ang magpapasaya sa ‘yo. Napakabilis ng panahon. Wag mo sasayangin sa mga walang kabuluhang bagay. At gaano man kalayo ang marating mo, huwag mo kakalimutan kung saan ka nanggaling.” – Lolo Mario

 

oOo

“Every hurt will MAKE you or BREAK you based on your response.Stepping stone or stumbling block? Better or bitter? U choose.”

Something Inspirational

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Stretch marks? I have them.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

A mark for every breath you took, every blink, every sleepy yawn. One for every time you sucked your thumb, waved hello, closed your eyes, and slept in the most perfect darkness. One for every time you had the hiccups. One for every dream you dreamed within me. It isn’t very pretty anymore. Some may even think it’s ugly. That’s OK. It was your home. It held you until my arms could, and for that, I will always find something beautiful in it. ~ Cassie Fox

%d bloggers like this: